Why would you want to bring wank to someone's doorstep or shame them into changing their requests???

Their letter is fine. I'm not going to match with them. We're both going to have great Yuletides and hopefully love the fics we write and enjoy the fics we get even more.

There's no need for a witch hunt. If it wasn't bad enough for me or any of the other people who're requesting/offering the fandom to drop it into the Bad Letters post, there's no reason for you to dredge it up because you have a wank boner.