Exactly. And it's not like we here at coal have any trouble with the idea of asshole mods. We live for that stuff! But it's really easy to be the innocent party when all you say is 'X is an asshole, I know because reasons I can't possibly reveal'.

Shayheyred was the poor, well-meaning writer who had an ungrateful bitch of a recip according to the posts on her lj that just so happened to gloss over all of the relevant details...