I'm the coalie who complained about the letter, and I'm not complaining about someone requesting Ronan or wanting him to be in character. If they'd been like "I love Podsa and I also read everything Ronan writes religiously" that would have been a different thing - I'd still be happy I didn't match to them, but I wouldn't think their letter was in bad taste. It's starting the section about a fandom with "I am a casual fan of [this fandom]" that really bothers me.