Wow, at Crueltide she mentioned "no explicit sex involving females", a commenter mentioned that that wasn't in her letter, she said she'd edit it in right away, and it's still not in there
http://yuletide.livejournal.com/1239458.html?thread=20813730#t20813730

It's also not in her massive fic exchange masterpost, but she does have this baffling list in her masterpost:

Things most people hate but I don't mind:

• Rape, especially if canon, as long as it's not Character A of my ship raping B
  
• Graphic descriptions of violence/death
  
• Obviously, please no gratuitous rape or violence.

??? what??