She has messaged me on Goodreads (because she recognized my name from Yulechat) and shown up in a group I participate in on FetLife (where fortunately I use a different handle, so she wasn't able to do the "hi! I recognize you! let's be friends!" thing). She may not show up often in fandom any more, but she seems to show up everywhere else I go on the Internet--and she talks endless about her physical and mental health problems in those spaces, too.
Re: Is it just me or are a lot of the people on YT chat and the LJ/DW YT admin comms complete wanker